got mad

A few minutes ago when I was in the bathroom giving my daughters a bathed, I called my son and never answered me. I asked him why and he did not answer. He started crying and just looking at me, I got so mad. I asked him again why and he just crying. His daddy said he was afraid of me. He does not afraid of me; he just simply does not respect me. At eight o’clock I asked him why he was not taking a shower yet and he did not answer. I yelled at him to take a bath. He supposed to have a bath at seven, but he was busy playing and watching TV and forgot about it. I do not like to get mad, but I think sometimes I have to.